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Earlier this year, I went on a date with a man who told me he had a thing for Asian women. We were sitting across from each other at a table in a fancy restaurant and he stood up to do a head-to-toe scan of me.

I am sick of being fetishised because of racist stereotypes about "small and compliant" Asian women. I told myself to run.

Here was yet another man with what is not-so-jokingly referred to as Yellow Fever: When I tried to break it off with him, he texted: Thankfully, there are thousands of gorgeous Japanese, Chinese and Korean girls in Sydney, so I will be okay.

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I have spent most of my adult life expending psychological and emotional energy fending off men like him. I have a small body. I have an Asian face. Women like me are handcuffed to a double bind.

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My body is viewed as a literal and symbolic site upon which to construct their fantasies of the perfect Asian lover. The pernicious perception that most young Asian women have petite, child-like bodies is not necessarily untrue. Equally painful is realising the extent to which the very narrow representations of Asian women in the West have created the idea in the minds of these men that because of our perceived submissiveness, they can be afforded a sense of ownership and possession of us.

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I recently entered my 30s. Sometimes, I have felt I have found a person who loved my body as a carrier of the person within, only to realise that, to him, my body was simply a fetish and a curiosity.

With each new romantic partner, I need to make the same anxious assessment: I am never sure how to respond. Beneath One sexy motherfucker is projected onto me, is my relationship to my Asian heritage; I have to fight against the Taiwanese cultural indoctrination that to be self-sacrificing and selfless is the ultimate way of lookin for a woman.

I have found these men unwilling to confront their own bias and prejudices.

They operate under a system of racial stratification themselves as superiorleaving Asian women to take on the disproportionate burden of fulfilling, resisting, or negotiating their stereotypes. I wonder whether I will retered through my life in this country upending stereotypes.

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It is llooking my job, or the job of other Asian women, to do that. These men should scrutinise their so-called "preferences" and work towards modifying racially unjust and untrue perceptions.

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I am not here for their education, sexual or otherwise. I blocked the man who sent me the aggressive, race-based text when I rejected reteided. I hope he examines and confronts his prejudices.

Only then will women from Asian backgrounds be respected as much as we should and treated as whole human beings — not accessories that embody derogatory fantasies. Because I am small and Asian, I am fetishised by some white men. The Sydney Morning Herald. License this article.